Building bridges with baklava

UMD alum is a singer-songwriter who celebrates her Palestinian heritage

Lyla Abukhodair, a recent UMD alumna, juggles her food passion with her music. But juggling is nothing new. When she attended UMD, she wore several hats: choir member, researcher, songwriter, preschool teacher, and of course, student. “I met a few of my future bandmates in choir. That's how I started with songwriting and putting myself out there in Duluth.” The UMD University Singers choir also drew her in.

“That was such a fun experience. It was more classical training than I've ever had.” Lyla finished her undergraduate social work degree with an independent study to learn about immigrant identity among Arabs in the U.S. She went on to get a master's degree in social work.

That independent study ended up launching her career. As a second-generation immigrant, the course inspired her to delve into her heritage, particularly Palestinian food. She has since worked with her family to create and host a Palestinian pop-up restaurant in several Duluth-area locations in early 2023. Her family supports Lyla’s dream of starting a Palestinian deli. The success of the pop-up events bodes well for the deli’s future.

“Arabic food is meant to be shared. I grew up with that concept,” Lyla says. In keeping with Lyla's plan, there will be seating where folks can gather to complement the future lunch menu. “We're looking in Duluth now for the right spot.”

Lyla Abukhodair (right) with her husband, Sam Miller (left) and her mother, Ann Abukhodair (center) all holding a large tray of Palestinian food
Left to right: Sam Miller (Lyla's husband, Ann Abukhodair (Lyla's mother), and Lyla Abukhodair

Her passion for her roots and the importance of community shapes her songwriting as well. She has produced three albums, been showcased at dozens of concerts, and has written numerous songs. Her reviewers call her vocals entrancing and her lyrics strong. A reviewer for the First Avenue and 7th Street Entry in Minneapolis says, “Lyla’s music is witty, gritty, and punk.” The Duluth Homegrown Music Festival guide writes of her, “big chorus anthems, catchy melodies, and jazzy riffs.” Minnesota Monthly Magazine praises her “one-on-one” connection with her audience.

That connection is what she seeks in all areas of her professional life. Bringing people together has long been a passion of Lyla’s, and now she does it through food and music and sharing her heritage. Lyla sees sharing Palestinian food as a way to create unity. “I think food is important because it’s a way for us to raise awareness,” she says. “Food is the easiest way to connect with people.”